Sex In Marriage Is The Only Right Way!
The topic of sex in our society has gotten out of hand in many ways. I believe that there is some truth that it is a tendency that women tend to give up sex to get love. While often men tend to give up love to get sex. Obviously, both ways are wrong.
Only if people were wise enough to realize that God had a plan for everything and people ought to practice sexuality in the way that God intended it to be which is in marriage, not the way people feel like it. I am personally guilty of not doing it the way God instructed us to do so, and because of it, some hardships came about because of it. So I know first-hand what I am talking about!
Without God as the compass in our lives, we will see more and more of the unbridled sexuality that the world is gravitating towards is a serious concern. God has given us a beautiful gift that ought to be opened between a husband and a wife in the bond of marriage only. ~ Bill Greguska
- Is it wrong for a married couple to have sex just for pleasure?
- Premarital sex – why are Christians so strongly against it?
- What does the Bible say about sex before marriage?
- What is sexual immorality?
- What makes sexual sin such a big deal?
Sex And Marriage Go Hand In Hand!
“Your purity is not based on what you’ve done with your body. It’s based on what Jesus did with His.” ~ Sheila Wray Gregoire
1 Corinthians 6:18-19 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own.
If More People Abstained From Sex Until Marriage?
Being sexually active before marriage can cause many unwanted consequences. But even if you don’t experience heartbreak, a sexually transmitted disease, or unwanted pregnancy.
I had sex before marriage and had a daughter, I felt terrible that she had to go through what she did. It was also very hard on me too knowing I had a child out of wedlock before I was saved. Thank God that she and I are very close, but it always does not work out that way, I am grateful that God showed me and my daughter grace and mercy in this situation.
God didn’t design sex in this way. He beautifully designed it to be a healthy, pleasurable experience between one man and one woman, and to create children in a healthy family. Our society has drastically changed the way we value marriage and the personal morals that were taught to us when we were young.
Sex in our society has gotten outrageous. You can tell by what is on TV and the movies just to get an idea. Our moral fiber has weakened to the point that it is today for many reasons. Before the Bible was taken out of our schools, we had problems, but now the problems have only gotten worse. Shame has been taken out of the equation for the most part, although the effects of lack of morals have crippled our society to the point of women having abortions at will, sex before marriage as a norm.
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The Media In Today’s Society Has Not Helped!
Unfortunately, the media has distorted sex today and has caused our world to embrace lust instead. The truth is it is not a game or a thing to be regarded lightly. When sex is practiced as recreation or pleasure outside of marriage, it will cause more problems than you can imagine. The momentary pleasure of sin can result in many regrets and negative consequences. These can be bypassed by abstaining from sex until marriage. Wait until the time is right (marriage); then welcome your child into this world the way God meant it to be.
1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their body.
Sex Is Sacred To God, Is It Sacred To You?
The Bible says that the only healthy sexuality and sex is between a husband and a wife who are married to each other and meant only for marriage. You can choose to honor God, His way instead of the way that brings heartache and dysfunction in this world. 1 Corinthians 10:23 says, “I have the right to do anything,” you say– but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”– but not everything is constructive. Choose to such things God’s way instead of a way that dishonors Him.
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“Billions of people have had sex. I don’t know how many have actually made love.” ~ Sheila Wray Gregoire
Colossians 3:5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.