My Divorce Hurt Me, Plus Many Other People!Divorce Hurts!

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My divorce hurt worse than anything I could imagine. Divorce has gotten out of control in our society, even with Christians. Marriage was God’s plan from the beginning. God hates divorce, and so do I.

I do not believe that if two people date, loved each other, and then get married, there is no pain involved, especially if there were children involved, like in my divorce. God knew that my divorce hurt! I understand the pain involved in going through a divorce; it is like ripping one flesh into two… ~ Bill Greguska.

Matthew 5:32  But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.








Have Done All You Could Do To Save Your Marriage? Then Turn The Page And Heal From Your Divorce!



Divorce Has Gotten Out Of Control In Our Society!

Two people can love each other, have a family, and then they have divorced the next thing you know? All divorces affect everyone involved by trickling down to each immediate family member and their close friends. It goes further to others who knew the couple. They tend to take sides with their closest friend or two. My divorce hurt, and if you get one, yours will hurt more than you could imagine, and the after mass lingers on and on. The only ones in a divorce who benefits are the lawyers.




Some Ideas To Avoid Getting A Divorce Are:

Taking the time to date your partner for at least one year before even thinking about making any wedding plans is very wise. Then set a date to be wed one more year is an excellent rule of thumb. People rush into marriage with their hormones instead of their brains quite often, and those relationships often end in divorce. Anyone can put their best foot forward for six months to a year to get what they want, but then reality sets in, and you sometimes find out who your partner is, which can cause many problems.

You need to treat your partner as more important than yourself, be patient with how they do things, and always love and respect them even if you do not feel good about something or feel like loving or respecting them. Always keep your word, be faithful, be willing to do anything for your spouse, enjoy laughter together, encourage each other, play and have fun together, work as though you are teammates, be romantic and thoughtful, pray together and stay together!





The Top 10 Things I Learned From My Divorce The Hard Way.

  1. God has to be the very center of the marriage AT ALL TIMES.
  2. Husbands, do all you can do to love your wife!
  3. Wives respect your husband!
  4. Your spouse ought to be your best friend!
  5. You are a team, and do not ever forget that!
  6. Put your partner’s wants and needs ahead of your own!
  7. Going into dating, you must keep both eyes wide open, and when you are married, you must make sure you close one!
  8. The word divorce should never be said or even thought of!
  9. Forgive, forgive, and forgive some more! Love, love, and love even when it is difficult!
  10. James 1:19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry,



Divorce Is The Ripping Of One Flesh Into Two!

Society makes light of subjects such as divorce and sin in general. No wonder the world is the way it is. Who knows where it is going without the Lord’s intervention in the lives of all of us? Divorce, without a doubt, is one of the worst things I have ever gone through. I thank God for walking with me through it. I recommend that everyone who is married get their lives in line with God and each other before something like this happens to you.





Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

Revelation 21:4 ESV

He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”

Romans 8:18 ESV 

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

Psalm 41:3 ESV

The Lord sustains him on his sickbed; in his illness, you restore him to full health.

Job 30:17 ESV

The night racks my bones, and the pain that gnaws me takes no rest.

Philippians 4:13 ESV 

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Romans 5:3-5 ESV 

Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.

Job 14:22 ESV 

He feels only the pain of his own body, and he mourns only for himself.”

Jeremiah 15:18 ESV

Why is my pain unceasing, my wound incurable, refusing to be healed? Will you be to me like a deceitful brook, like waters that fail?

Proverbs 20:30 ESV 

Blows that wound cleanse away evil; strokes make clean the innermost parts.

Jeremiah 29:11 ESV

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

Revelation 21:6-7 ESV

And he said to me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. To the thirsty I will give from the spring of the water of life without payment. The one who conquers will have this heritage, and I will be his God, and he will be my son.

2 Corinthians 4:17 ESV

For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison,



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