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The most important thing in the world is family and love. ~ John Wooden
Matthew 22:37-39 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved. ~ George Sand
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind, does not envy; it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others; it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts always hopes, always perseveres.
What Do You Know About Love?
Some people say they love pizza, and in the same conversation, they say they love their family?
Love can have a few different meanings depending on who or what you are referring to?
Sometimes a person says that they love their mother, but then they also say they also love pizza? It can be true that they love their mom and can also be very accurate that they love pizza.
The love for their mom is different, yet both mom and pizza we say we love very much.
Society confuses love and sex. The Greek language has words for four different types of love: eros, storge, phileo, and agape.
We say we “love” pizza and we “love” our mother, but the meanings are entirely different. Discover the critical differences between the types of love.
A sign of real love is when a person loves the other person to the point of loving them just about more than they love themselves. An example of that is the love a mother has for their child, or the love of a husband has for their wife or the other way around. When you feel inside that, you will do anything for the other person, that is definitely a sign of the definition of love.
How Can I Change?
Love Your Neighbor As Yourself Is A Command!
Learn the 2nd greatest commandment that God has given us.
We have already learned from Matthew 22:37-39 that God’s greatest commandment is to Love God. The scripture ends with the 2nd greatest commandment…”And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
This command is also emphasized in John 13:34-35, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, all men will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.”
To be a disciple of Jesus Christ, we must love one another. John 15:13 says, “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” Jesus laid down his life for you. So in applying this verse to your life, you should understand it to mean that the highest expression of love is to put your life and your wishes behind the desire to love and serve God and others.
In a realistic way, how can you lay down your life for another person?
What gets in the way of you loving others in this way?
Read John 15:12-17, to learn more about being a disciple of Jesus Christ.
To be His disciple, we must love others. Think about who in your life is the hardest person to love as God commands (and why)? What action could you take to start liking them anyway?
See if you can memorize John 15:12, “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.”
Romantic Love (Eros)—This is the feeling of “being in love,” physical passion, a feeling. Often people think of this kind of love when they think of “love.” Romantic love is healthy when it is a one-man/one-woman monogamous relationship within the bounds of marriage.
Affection (Storge)—This is the natural bond between parent and child. It is the most natural (it just happens!) and emotive (children can’t help it!), But it can “go wrong,” and people can get hurt when it becomes unhealthy. Affection, too, can be based on feelings.
Friendship (Phileo)—This is the love between friends. Friendship is the strong bond existing between people who share common interest or activity. But feelings are involved in this kind of love too—cliques can be formed, friends can hurt friends, pride can ruin a friendship.
Unconditional Love (Agape)—This is the love that cares and loves regardless of the circumstance. It never fails., this is the kind of love Jesus was talking about, the only always-healthy type of love. It is seeking the welfare and the best for another person, regardless of how we feel about them. The other three types of love aren’t sufficient! What makes agape love the only love that is always healthy? It is the same kind of love with which God loves us! Jesus displayed agape love when He went to the cross and died for you and me regardless of how He felt, and in spite of our sinfulness. That is true love!
What Makes Love Work?
Ten Scriptures Describing Love!
The message you heard from the very beginning is this: we must love one another. (1 John 3:11)
And now I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. (John 13:34)
Do not take revenge on others or continue to hate them, but love your neighbors as you love yourself. I am the Lord. (Leviticus 19:18)
Above everything, love one another earnestly, because love covers over many sins. (1 Peter 4:8)
Be under obligation to no one—the only obligation you have is to love one another. Whoever does this has obeyed the Law. (Romans 13:8)
My children, our love should not be just words and talk; it must be true love, which shows itself in action. (1 John 3:18)
No one has ever seen God, but if we love one another, God lives in union with us, and his love is made perfect in us. We are sure that we live in union with God and that he lives in union with us because he has given us his Spirit. (1 John 4:12-13)
Do all your work in love. (1 Corinthians 16:14)
Be always humble, gentle, and patient. Show your love by being tolerant of one another. Do your best to preserve the unity which the Spirit gives utilizing the peace that binds you together. (Ephesians 4:2-3)
To conclude: you must all have the same attitude and the same feelings; love one another, and be kind and humble with one another. Do not pay back evil with evil or cursing with cursing; instead, payback with a blessing, because a blessing is what God promised to give you when he called you. (1 Peter 3:8-9)