How To Apply Wisdom In Relationships?

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We will find wisdom in relationships when we include God in our lives! People are people, and nobody is perfect. We have all learned life lessons. The question is, have we applied those lessons to our lives?  Marriage can be one of the most beautiful things, yet without the right wisdom, marriage can be like a nightmare.

I have been told that repeating the same mistake and expecting different results is insanity. Be wise and seek wise counsel to meet the goals in your life as long as they are godly and healthy for you and others. It is good to seek wise counsel from a trusted friend or pastor. I have learned that sharing something with a trusted friend can be just what is needed. Do you have someone you can trust and look up to help you with areas in your life that you need wisdom for? You always know that God loves you and wants to have a relationship with Him, so do not be afraid to pray to God before contacting a close, trustworthy friend or pastor..~ Bill Greguska.

James 1:5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.





Wisdom In Relationships Need To Include God!



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Use Wisdom In Relationships You Are In!

Do You Practice Wisdom In Relationships!

To have wisdom in relationships is not that difficult. You have to be aware of the other person and feel like you would want to be treated.

Understanding relationships is critical and will undoubtedly make a difference in your life. We all need to learn from our past mistakes, not repeat them but grow from them. Learn how to have wisdom in relationships. Wisdom in relationships is not something to overlook. There are different types of relationships; some are with the family, others with friends, and others with school or work.  

The bottom line is that wisdom in relationships is not optional. Besides reading books or watching videos, an excellent way of gaining knowledge is to pray and strive to understand and apply God’s word in your life! We tap into God’s wisdom when you and I pray and read. Acquiring understanding in relationships comes in many different ways. The easiest way would be to learn the knowledge from others who already have gone through their problems and now have so-called expertise in knowing what went wrong and what they would have done differently. 

The other way to acquire wisdom in relationships is much more painful, but usually, a person can learn from it more quickly. That way would be called learning from their own experience using mistakes and failures. Relationships are often the most challenging ships to sail.  That is why gaining wisdom is so very critical to seek. ~ Bill Greguska





It Takes Effort To Get Wisdom In Relationships!



Principles To Find Wisdom In Relationships:

  1. Get the facts before answering.
  2. Make sure you hear both sides of the story before judging.
  3. Be open to new ideas.  

All three principles center around seeking more information, this is challenging work, but the only alternative is prejudice – judging before getting the facts and going on what someone has said. This is an all too familiar scenario (he said, she said). Go to the source. By following these three principles, failed marriages, friendships, and healthy relationships can be prevented. 

In this information age, knowledge is plentiful, but wisdom is scarce. Intelligence means far more than merely knowing a lot. It is an essential attitude that affects every aspect of life. The foundation of knowledge is to fear the Lord, honor and respect God, live in awe of his power, and obey his Word. Trust in God – He will make you truly wise. ~ Mike Hayden

Proverbs 1:7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.




Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

John 16:33 ESV

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV 

Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.

Proverbs 27:9 ESV 

Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.

1 John 4:12 ESV 

No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

John 8:31-32 ESV 

So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

1 Timothy 6:17 ESV

As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy.

Colossians 3:13 ESV 

Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.

Ephesians 4:2 ESV

With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,

Romans 13:8 ESV 

Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.

Proverbs 24:27 ESV

Prepare your work outside; get everything ready for yourself in the field, and after that build your house.

Proverbs 20:5 ESV 

The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.

Proverbs 16:2 ESV 

All the ways of a man are pure in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the spirit.



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