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Solutions through communication are the key to every successful marriage or relationship. It is not about avoiding conflicts altogether, but rather learning how to find a resolution that both parties can agree on. This requires patience, self-control, and the willingness to compromise. Instead of waiting until our problems grow into insurmountable mountains, we should turn to God for help in resolving them before they escalate any further.

By using tools like honest reflection and transparency coupled with prayer and God’s Word, we can analyze our role in disputes and take responsibility for our words and behaviors. So let us embrace solutions as an opportunity for growth in relationships instead of fearing conflict! With God’s guidance and love, we can overcome any obstacle together. ~ Bill Greguska

Isaiah 43:26  Review the past for me; let us argue the matter together; state the case for your innocence.

 

 

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What Are The Biblical Solutions To Solving Marriage Problems?

 

 

Take A Closer Look At What YOU Say And Do!

  1. Maybe you mean to say something innocently, but others may take it differently.
  2. Maybe you may say something a little too harsh or direct.
  3. Maybe what you mean to say is joking. Others may take you seriously.
  4. Maybe you should keep in mind your tone of voice.
  5. Maybe what you say or do is normal for you but might offend others.
  6. Maybe you come on too strong in how you talk or act.
  7. Maybe you talk too much, do not listen enough, and need to listen more and be quiet sometimes.
  8. Maybe you are not respectful to them by the way you talk with their ears.
  9. Maybe you said or did something rude.
  10. Maybe you are pushing your agenda on them too much.

 

Take A Look At What OTHERS Say And Do!

  1. Maybe they might not mean anything by what they said to you.
  2. Maybe they might be going through some stress or problems of their own and not realize how they are talking to you.
  3. Maybe I am being too sensitive to what they are saying.
  4. Maybe what they say is correct.
  5. Maybe what they are saying is partially correct.
  6. Maybe what they say is their point of view even though it conflicts with your point of view.
  7. Maybe what they are doing is how they have been raised.
  8. Maybe their political or religious beliefs are different from yours.
  9. Maybe their ways of talking and doing things are the opposite of yours.
  10. Maybe you need to give the person the benefit of the doubt.

Isn’t It Better To Focus On God ~ Instead Of Your Problems?

 

Seven Principles Concerning Solutions To Consider!Followers of Christ have been called to peace!

  1. Try to stop focusing on the problem so much.
  2. Focus on the solutions instead of the problems.
  3. Try harder to understand the other person’s perspective.
  4. Learn to develop compassion and empathy for others.
  5. Seek to find compromises when possible.
  6. Create strategies to avoid or resolve conflict before it gets out of hand.
  7. Through prayer, learn to forgive others and gain reconciliation and healthy relationships.

 

 

How To Resolve Conflicts With Others?

1. What did I do to the other person to upset them?

  • Did I possibly say something to upset the other person?

  • Was I respectful to the other person in any way?

  • Have I had any past conflicts with the other person that were not resolved?

 

List three insights and possible solutions below!

 

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2. What did I perceive that the other person did to upset me?

  • Did I clearly understand the other person? And did I ask for clarification?

  • What is what the person said true? Could I have overlooked whatever it was?

  • Has the other person insulted or disrespected me in the past?

 

List three insights and possible solutions below!

 

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B.

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3. What did I possibly say that might have caused the conflict?

  • Did the other person not understand what I was trying to say?

  • Was I disrespectful or unkind to the other person?

  • Did I blame the other person in some way or another?

 

List three insights and possible solutions below!

 

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B.

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4. What did I perceive that the other person said that caused the conflict?

  • Did I clearly understand the other person?

  • Did I overreact to what the person said?

  • Could I have overlooked it and shown grace to the other person?

 

List three insights and possible solutions below!

 

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Scriptures That Support Each of The Four Questions Above.

  1. Ephesians 4:32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
  2. James 5:6 You have condemned and murdered the innocent one, who was not opposing you.
  3. Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
  4. Luke 6:29 If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If one takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them.

 

 

 

 

 

Peace Of God Is Found In The Solution!

 

 

 

Steps to Practice When We Face Conflict:Do you try to understand other peoples perspective? NeedEncouragement.com

 

1. Remove the Log Out of My Own Eye First.

You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. Matthew 7:5

 

2. Admit Weakness and Be Humble.

Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy. Proverbs 28:13

 

3. Don’t Promise Beyond Your Ability.

But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation. James 5:12

4. Give Others Grace no Matter Who is Wrong.

Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31

 

5. Strive to find Solutions, Not Blame.

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness. 2 Timothy 3:16

 

6. Seek to Reconcile All Your Relationships if Possible.

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Romans 12:18

 

 

 

 

What Are 11 Common Problems People Face?

Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You: 

John 16:33 ESV 

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world, you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

1 Corinthians 10:13 ESV 

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

Matthew 10:16 ESV

“Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.

1 Peter 5:7 ESV

Casting all your anxieties on him because he cares for you.

Romans 8:28 ESV

And we know that for those who love God, all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

John 10:10 ESV 

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.

Proverbs 12:25 ESV

Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.

2 Corinthians 5:17 ESV 

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

Luke 14:28 ESV 

For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?

Psalm 46:1 ESV

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

Philippians 4:6 ESV 

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.

 

 

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About the Author:

In 2007, my pastor Ron Sauer and his wife Sue encouraged me to encourage others, knowing that I was struggling in my own life. They were wise to know that if I reached out to help other people, my problems would be put into perspective. I did, and it helped! Read 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. And If you do not have a relationship with God, I encourage you to learn about Him here. I trust you will find the encouragement you need here on this website. You can also call 800-633-3446 or 877-772-4559 or you can text JESUS (53787) ~ God bless you! Bill Greguska

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