Is Sex Is For Marriage Not For Anything Else!
Have You Had Sex Outside Of Marriage?
No matter what way you look at it, sex is for marriage only between one man and one woman!
The bottom line, the question should not be is sex only meant for marriage. Instead, it should be a statement, sex outside of marriage may be pleasurable for a short season, but with disobedience to God’s word, there a penalty for sin.
Sex is not a sport as the media have made it into. God created men and women to be able to have sex to reproduce in a marriage bond. Not in a flippant type manner like our society has made it in to.
If you are dating now, the best thing to do when you find someone you care about and love is to agree that you will both wait for marriage to have sex. Sex outside of marriage is a sin.
If you’re dating partner cannot agree to that, and then it would be best, in the long run, to put the relationship on hold until you got things resolved about this matter.
When you can both agree upon the answer to the question, “Is sex only meant for marriage?” and have integrity and self-control to keep your commitment to God, yourself, and your partner, and then your future will look much brighter.
Why Is Sex Outside Of Marriage So Destructive?
Unfortunately I Didn’t Wait For Marriage
But God still blessed me with a beautiful and wonderful loving daughter! I admit I did not do it right by not waiting to be married, but God was gracious even though I did not have the chance to be with her until my daughter was 12 years old.
Remember that our God is a God of second and third chances, although consequences are involved. I pray that you will consider treating sex in the way God intended it, waiting until after marriage because sex outside marriage is a sin. Like any sin, it is forgivable, yet there are sometimes consequences that still happen because of it. My daughter was not a sin, but what I did was a sin.
Then you can seek God’s help to help you raise your child in your healthy marriage relationship.
In my case back in 1981, like many other young people, I didn’t wait to get married before having a child. Even though I didn’t respect sex as God designed it, God blessed me with a beautiful and wonderful daughter named Sherry.
She has been in my life ever since she was in grade school. By God’s grace, both Sherry and I had a strong desire to be a part of each other’s lives.
What Was Broken God Put Back Together
She now has grown up and has two children of her own (my grandchildren). Often this is not how things work out in the end but a relationship and heartaches that are a part of not waiting for marriage to have a child. I thank God that he has blessed both Sherry and me to have rekindled our father-daughter relationship that was physically missing for about 12 years.
Unfortunately, it does not always work out in a good way as it did for my daughter Sherry and myself. I would have to say that we defied the odds, but it would have been much easier doing it God’s way, but life sometimes doesn’t always work out that way.
God Loves Us And Wants The Best For Us!
All I know is that I am thankful that God is a God of second and third chances and God has shown his love for Sherry and me by allowing me to be her father and Sherry to be my daughter after missing her younger years, even though it was hard knowing that I had a child but did not spend time with her until she was about 12 years old.
I do remember holding her one time in my arm when she was less than a year old, which my only memory of her. Sherry’s single memory of me was an MATC identification card that her mom had of mine.
It was not until Sherry has a burning desire to meet me when she was about 12 years old that we finally connected and have been together ever since. ~ Bill Greguska
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