Find Solutions To Solve Conflicts That Come Up!

Do not focus on the problems, focus on the solutions!

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Solutions through communication are the key to every successful marriage or relationship. It is not about avoiding conflicts altogether but rather learning how to find a resolution that both parties can agree on. This requires patience, self-control, and the willingness to compromise.

Instead Of Waiting Until Our Problem Grows Into A Insurmountable Mountain, We Should Turn To God First, Then To Others We Trust For Help In Resolving Them Before They Escalate And Get Out Of Hand. What Do You Think Are Some Tools People Can Use To Find Solutions? Read On…

Using tools like honest reflection, transparency, prayer, and God’s Word, we can analyze our role in disputes and take responsibility for our words and behaviors. So, let us embrace solutions as opportunities for relationship growth instead of fearing conflict! With God’s guidance and love, we can overcome any obstacle together. ~ Bill Greguska

Isaiah 43:26  Review the past for me; let us argue the matter together; state the case for your innocence.

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Take A Closer Look At What YOU Say And Do!

1. Maybe you mean to say something innocently, but others may take it differently.
2. Maybe you may say something a little too harsh or direct.
3. Maybe what you mean to say is joking. Others may take you seriously.
4. Maybe you should keep in mind your tone of voice.
5. Maybe what you say or do is normal for you but might offend others.
6. Maybe you come on too strong in how you talk or act.
7. Maybe you talk too much, do not listen enough, and need to listen more and be quiet sometimes.
   
8. Maybe you are not respectful to them by the way you talk with their ears.
9. Maybe you said or did something rude.
10. Maybe you are pushing your agenda on them too much.

Take A Look At What OTHERS Say And Do!

1. Maybe they might not mean anything by what they said to you.
2. Maybe they might be going through some stress or problems of their own and not realize how they are talking to you.
3. Maybe I am being too sensitive to what they are saying.
4. Maybe what they say is correct.
5. Maybe what they are saying is partially correct.
6. Maybe what they say is their point of view even though it conflicts with your point of view.
7. Maybe what they are doing is how they have been raised.
8. Maybe their political or religious beliefs are different from yours.
9. Maybe their ways of talking and doing things are the opposite of yours.
10. Maybe you need to give the person the benefit of the doubt.

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Seven Principles Concerning Solutions To Consider!

• Did I clearly understand the other person?

• Did I overreact to what the person said?

• Could I have overlooked it and shown grace to the other person?

Think of three insights and possible solutions!

Peace Of God Is Found In The Solution!

Steps to Practice When We Face Conflict:

1. Remove the Log Out of My Own Eye First.

You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. Matthew 7:5

2. Admit Weakness and Be Humble.

Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy. Proverbs 28:13

3. Don’t Promise Beyond Your Ability.

But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation. James 5:12

4. Give Others Grace no Matter Who is Wrong.

Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31

5. Strive to find Solutions, Not Blame.

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness. 2 Timothy 3:16

6. Seek to Reconcile All Your Relationships if Possible.

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Romans 12:18

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