How Badly Do You Want To Stop Swearing?

I wanted to stop swearing, but it became a bad habit!

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When I played basketball growing up, swearing was pretty commonplace. I witnessed my teammates and opponents hurling profanities left and right, thinking it made them appear cool or tough. It wasn’t until later, when reflecting on those times, that I realized how ignorant I had been, blindly following the crowd without considering the impact of my words.  I remember being told that a person with any intellect does not need to swear because they have the wisdom and knowledge to use the words in their mind rather than trying to be like others who use their word with ignorance.

It Took Prayer And Effort To Break Free From This Destructive Habit Of Swearing, Especially Since Deep Down Inside I Knew It Didn’t Align With Who I Wanted To Be Anymore. Despite My Sincere Desire To Stop Using Such Language, The Habit Clung To Me Stubbornly For A Little While Longer. Yet I Found Glimmers Of Hope Encouraging Me Forward To Eventually Clean Up My Language Finally!

In reality, stopping swearing meant more than just eliminating certain words from my vocabulary; it symbolized personal growth and an elevation of character. With every conscious effort made to refrain from vulgar language came an affirmation that intelligence lies not in mimicking others but in expressing oneself eloquently through thoughtful speech. Today, looking back at that journey towards abandoning profanity like God helped me quit drugs and alcohol, I discovered that all these vices had no room in my life any longer. I am glad I quit. Most of us would agree that swearing is not something at all to be proud of, and many would say that it is a sign of ignorance. ~ Bill Greguska

Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

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Is Cursing A Sin For Christians?

 

Is It Okay For A Christian To Use Euphemisms? 

We often heard, “Oh my God!”  Is that using God’s name in vain? Jesus explained that what comes out of our mouths is that which fills our hearts. At some point, the evil in the heart comes out through the mouth in curses and swearing. But when our hearts are filled with the goodness of God, praise for Him and love for others will pour forth.

Why is it a sin to swear? Sin is a condition of the heart, the mind, and “the inner man” (Romans 7:22), manifested in our thoughts, actions, and words. When we swear and curse, we give evidence of the evil and pollution in our hearts that must be confessed and repented. When we put our faith in Christ, we receive a new nature from God (2 Corinthians 5:17), our hearts are transformed, and our speech reflects the new life God has created within us (Romans 12:1–2). But thank God that when we fail, God is still “faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).

Is It Okay For A Christian To Swear? 

I hope this is a no-brainer for Christians.  It is not okay to swear using foul language, especially using God’s name in cuss words or swearing.  Paul is clear about this in Ephesians 4:29 “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”  This would include telling dirty jokes, making off-color remarks, and making lewd or lascivious gestures.  These are all considered a sin by biblical standards.  These are not gray areas.  Using profane language, calling someone names, and even using euphemisms is wrong.

 

Does The Bible Say Swearing Is A Sin?

A Definition of Euphemisms And Sin!

A euphemism is where one word is substituted for another. When people say “gheeze” or “jeez,” they replace these words with euphemisms.  These are euphemisms for Jesus’ name. They might not think they are swearing, but even using names as a substitution is considered a sin.  When someone says, “Darn!” or “Darn it!“ they are substituting it for “Damn!” or “Damn it!”. 
And the often used “Oh my God!” is taking God‘s name in vain, even if people don’t think so.  Even further, “Oh my gosh!” is a euphemism for “Oh my God!” There is no difference.  That is the way that God looks at it, and it is breaking the Third Commandment.  God hears it as a substitution for His name, and we are told not to take God’s name in vain at any time and for any reason.

 

What Does Taking God’s Name In Vain Mean?

Taking His name in vain means using it in a  careless, useless, or meaningless way. Exodus 20:7 is clear: “You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.”  Leviticus 19:12 says, “‘Do not swear falsely by my name and so profane the name of your God. I am the LORD.”  Deuteronomy 5:11 records, “You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.”  Jesus is Lord and God, so when you use His name in vain or as a euphemism, it is also a sin.

 

Can The Tongue Be Tamed?

Yes, it can be tamed! Even though everyone has slips of the tongue.  Even Christians sometimes say things that they later regret.  The Bible is full of stories about people saying things they regretted.  A moment of anger gets the best of all of us.  Unfortunately, it only takes one moment of rage to wipe out seven years of being a good example.  James warns us about the power of the tongue:
James 1:26 “Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless.”

 

 

How To Stop Swearing?

 

Swearing Is Venom And Poison From Heart!

James has almost an entire chapter dedicated to the tongue and its power to do good and evil.  Remember that James, the half-brother of Christ, is writing to Christians.  He speaks of the deadly venom that the tongue can spew in James 1:2-12: “We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check. When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.  The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind,  but no human being can tame the tongue.
It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue, we praise our Lord and Father, and with it, we curse human beings who have been made in God’s likeness.  Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 1 Can both freshwater and saltwater flow from the same spring?  My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.” And James says in 3:6: “The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.”

 

Words of Grace Instead?

Whenever possible, I love to choose words that I call the “Three E’s”; edifying, exhorting, and encouraging. Words have real power: Either for good or evil.  They hold the power of life and death.  When given a choice, choose to speak what is good.  Not flattery, which is insincere and is like being a false witness, but sincere compliments.  Words can be the spice of life or the pall of death.
  •  “She opens her mouth with wisdom,  And on her tongue is the law of kindness.” Proverbs 31:26
  • “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Proverbs 15:1
  • “With his mouth, the Godless destroys his neighbor, but through knowledge, the righteous escape.” Proverbs 11:9
  •  “The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Proverbs 12:18
  •  “Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.” Proverbs 12:25
  •  “The wise in heart are called discerning, and gracious words promote instruction.” Proverbs 16:21
  •  “The hearts of the wise make their mouths prudent, and their lips promote instruction.  Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Proverbs 16:22-23
The next time you feel anger boiling up inside of you, and you feel you are about to say something out loud like a euphemism, an angry word, or something you might regret, hide this verse in your heart:
Colossians 4:6 “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”

 

A Bad Habit To Break!

Breaking the swearing habit might be challenging — no more comfortable than losing weight, giving up cigarettes, or correcting any other addiction. It takes much prayer, practice, support from others, and a sincere desire to be a better person — not only by controlling your language but the emotions that prompt you to swear. Here are a few exercises to condition yourself:
  1. Think in clean language, and switch negative thoughts into positive solutions.
  2. When you are on your way to a situation, you know it will test your temper and tongue; plan what you will say and how you will say it.
  3. Tell your family or friends what you are doing, and you will be more cautious around them.
  4. Determine when and why you swear the most and develop tricks for changing your behavior.

 

 

How To Stop Swearing?

Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

James 5:12 ESV 

But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

Matthew 5:33 ESV

“Again, you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’

Matthew 5:29-30 ESV 

If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.

James 1:26 ESV 

If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.

Ephesians 4:29 ESV 

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

 

 

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