What Is Falling In Love?

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Would you like to talk to someone? Click Here! Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition. ~ Alexander Smith

Will what to someone now keep you attracted to them later?

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Falling in love slowly is wonderful! It means you are taking the time to get to know someone deeper, beyond physical attraction. You are considering their values, interests, and spiritual beliefs. These are crucial to building a strong foundation for your relationship. It would be helpful to evaluate the reasons for your attraction to ensure they are honorable. Unfortunately, society promotes sex before marriage, but God’s word prohibits it for many good reasons people are blind to, such as unplanned birth, Venereal disease, Aids, uncommitted relationships, to name a few.

While Falling In Love May Feel Magical, It’s Important To Remember That Staying In Love Takes Effort And Dedication! So Take Your Time, Be Patient, And Make Sure You Find Someone Who Aligns With Who You Are. Remember That True Love Is More Than Just Butterflies In Your Stomach Or Physical Attraction!

Ephesians 5:3  But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.

 

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Are You In Love…

Falling in love is about building a lifelong connection based on mutual respect, trust, and shared experiences, and it is far more than simply physical sex drives. How do you know if you are in love or lust? A person needs to assess their situation and seek help from a mentor, friend, pastor, or a free Christian counselor. Otherwise, you are getting yourself into deep waters, and if you do get married, will there be enough substance to keep you together without worrying about divorce? ~ Bill Greguska

 

 

 

 

 

What Is Falling In Love? Be Wise, It Is More Than Physical!

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Are You Falling In Love? Go Slowly Is Truly A Beautiful Thing!

It means that every moment spent with your significant other was cherished and appreciated. You took the time to get to know each other more deeply, beyond just physical attraction. And when you finally realized you were in love, it was even more special because it had grown over time.

Remember that falling in love is only the beginning – staying in love requires effort and commitment. Take the time to ensure your partner shares similar values and interests, keeping your relationship strong through any challenges. Trust me when I say this: a healthy relationship based on mutual trust, respect, and understanding is worth taking things slow for!

 

 

 

 

 

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Falling In Love!

God has wired us to be relational beings, one man with one woman. Falling in love and being in love are beautiful gifts from God. From the beginning, God had in mind genuine mature love and respect, bound by commitment.

I fell in love only to learn that romance is more conditional than unconditional. It is always best to keep physical signs of affection under lock and key until you are sure the relationship will last. Then, it is wise to seek counsel and possibly an engagement, with plans for marriage to follow. But keep the physical side out of the way so it will not distract from getting to know each other and preparing for marriage. 

I was married for ten years before discovering that falling in love is only a small part of love, not the lion’s share. That is where so many people get married, and sometimes the feelings of love fade, leaving nothing to hold it together without committed love. Falling in love is lovely, yet at the same time, it needs to be based on real feelings and intellect rather than lust, physical desires, and feelings of needing to be married. ~ Bill Greguska

 

 

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Are You Falling In Love? Keep Sexuality Out Of It!

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Most of us know falling in love is beautiful, but you must take things slowly and carefully.

In our society, with a heavy influence on sexual freedom and independence and a lack of moral fiber, these issues have dirtied the water when falling in love. Too often, people mistake having sexual feelings for a feeling of falling in love. This fact has been responsible for many single-parent households, abortion-related diseases, and broken homes.  

Falling in love is not something to play with; there are consequences when feeling only because it can change. There needs to be excellent communication, shared values, and interests, plus the test of time, seeing each other in many different lights and situations, to understand who you are involved with.  ~ Bill Greguska

 

 

 

 

Take The Time To Do What You Need To Do!

  • Keep your eyes open for red flags. “wide open,” please!  And thank the Lord that He reveals them.  If your heart is in His calm control, you can more clearly see and discuss these flags with Him and with her, helping her analyze where they are coming from and how to address them. 
  • Remember, the older a girl or guy gets [unless they are brought to the Lord, being changed by Him], they are getting more hard-wired to Stay like they have been, less open at ALL to change, which is necessary for a marriage!!  Mother says, ” Just like the fan over your head!  It has to be controlled by the button to determine how fast or slow it goes.”
  • Do not let a man/woman get on the same or near the same level as God is in your life. Mother looks at Daddy’s picture every night and says, “Goodnight, my dear Autrie.  You will always be just under the First Love of my life! Autrie had almost 66 years of marriage.
  • Don’t assume a man/woman is lovely to let them show you. That thought is just helpful for you to guard your mind and thoughts further. Keep from racing ahead of God’s perfect timing! ~ Sue Sauer

 

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Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

1 John 4:18 ESV 

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.

Psalm 85:10 ESV 

Steadfast love and faithfulness meet; righteousness and peace kiss each other.

Proverbs 18:22 ESV 

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

 

 

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