How To Resolve Conflicts?

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Would you like to talk to someone? Click Here! Every conflict we face in life is rich with positive and negative potential. It can be a source of inspiration, enlightenment, learning, transformation, and growth, or rage, fear, shame, entrapment, and resistance. The choice is not up to our opponents, but to us, and our willingness to face and work through them. ~ Kenneth Cloke

Don’t blame the other person 100%, be honest and admit your part in the conflict!

22 Bible Verses About How To Resolve Conflicts!

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To resolve conflicts, it is crucial not to blame or point fingers at the other person, but to seek a diplomatic, peaceful solution. If you choose to avoid conflict, conflicts that fester unaddressed will sometimes, but ALWAYS, escalate and adversely affect relationships with others. The goal of conflict resolution is unity, and the devil will take every opportunity to exploit unresolved issues, especially those involving anger, bitterness, self-pity, and envy.

The New Testament contains multiple commands for believers to live at peace with one another. We are repeatedly instructed to love one another (John 13:34; Romans 12:10), to live in peace and harmony with one another (Romans 15:5; Hebrews 12:14), to settle our differences among ourselves (2 Corinthians 13:11), to be patient, kind, and tenderhearted toward one another (1 Corinthians 13:4), to consider others before ourselves (Philippians 2:3), to bear one another’s burdens (Ephesians 4:2), and to rejoice in the truth (1 Corinthians 13:6).

Proverbs 15:1  A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

 

 

Biblical Conflict Resolution In A Nutshell!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Slow Down And Practice Conflict Resolution!

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Seven Steps to Resolution

  1. Rejoice in the Lord always (Philippians 4:4).
  2. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone (Philippians 4:5a).
  3. Remember, the Lord is at hand (Philippians 4:5b).
  4. Don’t be anxious about the conflict; ask God to resolve it (Philippians 4:6).
  5. Guard your heart and mind with the peace of God, even when it seems inconvenient (Philippians 4:7).
  6. Find something—anything—praiseworthy to focus on in your situation (Philippians 4:8).
  7. Find good role models and continue practicing these things as you experience God’s peace (Philippians 4:9).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Do’s And Don’ts In Solving Conflict!

Despite All Efforts To Reconcile, Various Issues Can Stop Us!

Two passages in the New Testament clearly and unambiguously address conflict resolution in the context of sin. In Matthew 18:15- 17, Jesus gives the steps for dealing with a sinning brother. According to this passage, in the event of a conflict involving overt sin, we are to address it one-on-one first, then, if it remains unresolved, take it to a small group, and finally to the whole church if the problem persists.


The other passage that explicitly addresses this is Luke 17. In verses 3-4, Jesus says, “Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.” An essential part of conflict resolution is forgiveness. Any disciplinary procedure should always have the sinner’s restoration as its ultimate goal.

 

 

 

 


Sometimes Conflict Has To Do With Style Preferences ~ Or Personality Clashes!

In such cases, we do well to check our motives and remember to “do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your interests but each of you to the interests of the others” (Philippians 2:3–4).

If we have a genuine disagreement with someone over stylistic preferences—the best way to accomplish a specific ministry goal, the church budget, how a church service should flow, etc.—we should engage in discussion and reach a mutual agreement.

 

What Is The Reason Conflict Resolution Is So Difficult? 

We’re hesitant to put ourselves in uncomfortable situations. We’re also frequently unwilling to humble ourselves enough to admit that we might be wrong or to do what it might take to make amends.

Those who do conflict resolution best often prefer not to confront others about their sin, yet do so out of obedience to God. If the matter is relatively minor, the best thing to do is to practice forbearance and overlook the offense (Proverbs 19:11). If it cannot be forgotten, one must pursue reconciliation. This is an essential issue to God that peace with Him and others is inextricably entwined (Matthew 5:23–24). Gotquestions.org

 

 

Conflict Resolution!

 

Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

Philippians 4:6-7 ESV

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

1 Peter 5:7 ESV 

Casting all your anxieties on him because he cares for you.

John 14:27 ESV 

Peace I leave with you; the peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

Psalm 23:4 ESV

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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