My Divorce Hurt Me And Others Too!

Divorce is like ripping one flesh into two, it is extremely painful but it can be avoided!

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My divorce hurt not only me, but also my family and friends. It hurts everyone. It was one of the most excruciating experience I have ever gone through. But despite my pain, I refuse to believe that all hope is lost for marriages in our society today. As a Christian, I know that marriage was God’s plan from the beginning and that He hates divorce just as much as I do. Remember that God provides ways for couples to resolve problems before things get bad.

My Heart Goes Out To Anyone Who Has Experienced The Excruciating Pain Of A Divorce! Satan Makes People Think That A Divorce Will Stop The Pain, But The Truth Is That It Just Creates Different Situations Of Pain. Unfortunately To Some Degree, Divorce Will Scar You For Life. That Is One Reason I Believe God Hates Divorce!

Especially if there were children involved, since the divorce between the husband wife, the children are basically pawns or innocent by standers in a sense. Like in my situation, my stepson and I had a good relationship, but the problem was between his mom and me. It’s not easy; it feels like your very flesh is being torn apart into two. However, we must remember that God knew how much my divorce hurt, and He cares deeply about each one of us going through this trial. We must hold onto His promises and trust Him to heal us completely over time. Remember: “You are not alone in your struggle. God will never leave you or forsake you!” ~ Bill Greguska

Matthew 5:32  But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

 

 

My Divorce Hurt Very, Very Much!

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What Does The Bible Say About Divorce And Remarriage?

 

Divorce Has Gotten Out Of Control In Our Society!

Two people can love each other, have a family, and then they have divorced the next thing you know? All divorces affect everyone involved by trickling down to each immediate family member and their close friends. It goes further to others who knew the couple. They tend to take sides with their closest friend or two. My divorce hurt, and if you get one, yours will hurt more than you could imagine, and the aftermath lingers on and on. The only ones in a divorce who benefit are the lawyers.

 

 

Ideas On How To Avoid Getting A Divorce:

Taking the time to date your partner for at least one year before even thinking about making any wedding plans is wise. Then setting a date to be wed one more year is an excellent rule of thumb. People rush into marriage with their hormones instead of their brains quite often, and those relationships often end in divorce. Anyone can put their best foot forward for six months to a year to get what they want, but then reality sets in, and you sometimes find out who your partner is, which can cause many problems.

You need to treat your partner as more important than yourself, be patient with how they do things, and always love and respect them even if you do not feel good about something or like loving or respecting them. Always keep your word, be faithful, and be willing to do anything for your spouse. Enjoy laughter together, encourage each other, play and have fun together, work as though you are teammates, be romantic and thoughtful, pray together, and stay together!

 

 

How Can I Survive The Pain Of Divorce?

 

Ten Things I Learned From My Divorce!

  1. God has to be the very center of the marriage AT ALL TIMES.
  2. Husbands, do all you can do to love your wife!
  3. Wives respect your husband!
  4. Your spouse ought to be your best friend!
  5. You are a team, and do not ever forget that!
  6. Put your partner’s wants and needs ahead of your own!
  7. Going into dating, you must keep both eyes wide open, and when you are married, you must make sure you close one!
  8. The word divorce should never be said or even thought of!
  9. Forgive, forgive, and forgive some more! Love, love, and love even when it is difficult!
  10. James 1:19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry,

 

 

Divorce Is The Ripping Of One Flesh Into Two!

Society makes light of subjects such as divorce and sin in general. No wonder the world is the way it is. Who knows where it is going without the Lord’s intervention in the lives of all of us? Divorce, without a doubt, is one of the worst things I have ever gone through. I thank God for walking with me through it. I recommend that everyone married get their lives in line with God and each other before something like this happens to you.

 

 

What The Bible Says About Divorce And Remarriage?

 

Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

Revelation 21:4 ESV

He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”

Romans 8:18 ESV 

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

Job 30:17 ESV

The night racks my bones, and the pain that gnaws me takes no rest.

Philippians 4:13 ESV 

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Proverbs 20:30 ESV 

Blows that wound cleanse away evil; strokes make clean the innermost parts.

Jeremiah 29:11 ESV

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

 

 

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