Do You Speak Respectfully?

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The lack of respectful words usually invites trouble!

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Over the past many years, I have concluded that a gentle word in our society has been considered undesirable, yet in God’s word, the weak shall inherit the world; there is a peculiar contradiction. But if I look back at past disagreements with others, I can’t help but wonder what might have happened if I had embraced gentleness instead of righteousness. Perhaps, I would have come out on top more often than not! (James 1:19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry). We all need to learn how to speak gentle words of kindness a little more often, and we will find that life will be better for everyone! Do you talk with respect?

Now, People Seem To Tend To View Gentleness Differently – Some See It As A Sign Of Weakness. Let Me Tell You Something Profound That I Once Heard: Gentleness Is Not Weakness; It Is Strength Under Control. Just Imagine For A Moment How Much Smoother, Easier, And Better Our Lives Could Be If We Chose To Practice A Gentle Word Each Day With Those You Meet.

Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

 


 

Is Gentleness A Fruit Of The Spirit?


 

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The Power Of Gentle Words

Gentle words and actions can mend broken hearts and heal wounded souls like nothing else can. So let us strive to cultivate this beautiful virtue within ourselves and extend it generously to those around us. Gentleness has the power to transform lives and create harmonious connections where discord once prevailed. Philippians 4:5  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.

 ~ Bill Greguska

 

 


 

 

 


A Gentle Word Is A Good Thing!

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What Gentleness Is Not!

To be gentle is to understand that God’s ways and thoughts are high above our own (Isaiah 55:9). It is to humbly realize that our worldviews are formed by exposure to sin. I have not been a gentleman; I have often fallen far short of gentleness and allowed my anger and selfishness to control me. How about you? Is kindness one of the controlling factors in your life? ~ Bill Greguska

 “In a world that cheers when athletes smash into each other and applauds insults as a form of entertainment, is gentleness even relevant anymore?” Eddie Foster

 

 


 

How to Speak With Respect?


 

Scriptures Referring To Gentleness:

  • Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law.
  • Colossians 3:12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.
  • 1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to answer anyone who asks you for the reason for the hope you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.
  • Matthew 5:44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
  • Philippians 4:5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.

 


 

 


 

What Does It Mean To Speak With Respect?

One of the purposes of the Holy Spirit is to work in us to be more like Christ (Galatians 5:22-23). Remember that another word for gentleness can be “meekness,” which does not mean weakness. Think about it for a minute; it takes a very strong person to be genuinely gentle! Our instincts lead us to be angry, rude, aggressive, and demanding. But with the wisdom given to us by the Holy Spirit, we begin to see why we should ultimately submit to God as Lord of our lives. Gentleness places our strength under God’s guidance; rather than our instincts,  it is a powerful tool for living a godly life when our goal is to follow Jesus Christ’s example.

 

 


 

How To Speak a Gentle Word And Have A Quiet Spirit?


 

Some Specific Scriptures To Encourage You:

Titus 3:2 ESV 

To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.

Proverbs 15:1 ESV 

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Galatians 5:22-23 ESV

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

 


 

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