How Would You Describe Gentleness?

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Looking back at past disagreements with others, if I were to have used more gentleness rather than righteousness, I might have come up on top of more situations than I did in the past! I like what I once heard gentleness is not being weak, but gentleness is strength under control.  ~ Bill Greguska

Philippians 4:5  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.





A Fruit Of The Spirit Is Gentleness




What Gentleness Is Not!

To be gentle is to understand that God’s ways and thoughts are high above our own (Isaiah 55:9). It is to humbly realize that our worldviews are formed by exposure to sin. 

I have not always been a gentleman; there have been many times in my life. I have fallen far short of gentleness and allowed my anger and selfishness to control me. How about you? Is kindness one of the controlling factors in your life? ~ Bill Greguska

 “In a world that cheers when athletes smash into each other and applauds insults as a form of entertainment, is gentleness even relevant anymore?” Eddie Foster


Examples Of Gentleness That Are Not Common!

  • Apologize quickly after an “emotional outburst.” Remember that we are human beings with many powerful emotions that can temporarily get out of control. Still, a gentle person will realize how they’ve said might have affected others and will apologize asap. They seek to make amends and attempt to gain the self-control to prevent such outbursts in the future.
  • Remind ourselves of God’s gentleness, and how would we want God to correct us or point something out to us? The way we do to others? I am sure, not always.
  • Think about what our attitude looks like: When we see someone doing something wrong, is our hammer out ready to bash some heads? Or, instead, is our notebook out with ideas of how to help someone overcome a sin? Getting these pictures in our heads can sometimes make us aware of our shortcomings and eventually reach for the notebook or Bible rather than the harsh words or the hammer.
Being gentle doesn’t mean that we should not stand firm in our beliefs, but it does say that we should be wise and loving in expressing those beliefs to others. God shows tough love and teaches hard lessons to humans while being the very definition of gentleness. Now we need to do the same with others in our lives.

Real Strength Is Found In Gentleness!


Scriptures That Refer To Gentleness:

  • Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law.
  • Colossians 3:12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.
  • 1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to answer everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.
  • Matthew 5:44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
  • Philippians 4:5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.


What Does Gentleness Mean To You?

One of the purposes of the Holy Spirit is to work in us to be more like Christ (Galatians 5:22-23). Remember that another word for gentleness can be “meekness,” which does not mean weakness. Think about it for a minute; it takes a very strong person to be genuinely gentle! Our instincts lead us to be angry, rude, aggressive, demanding. But with the wisdom given to us by the Holy Spirit, we begin to see why we should ultimately submit to God as Lord of our lives. Gentleness places our strength under God’s guidance; rather than our instincts,  it is a powerful tool for living a godly life when our goal is to follow Jesus Christ’s example.

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